It's easy to judge people for their actions but you don't always know what's driving them.

 You don't know what they're born into, the struggles they faced. 

Sometimes we make rash decisions with no idea why. 

But often it's fear pulling the strings behind the curtain.

 Fear of failure, of being let down, or, one of the old favorites: fear of happiness.

 It's all too easy to be your own worst enemy. 

And the damage we inflict can take a lifetime to undo.