According to this man's family, he was not a smoker, but the truth is he smoked two packs a day, in his car for twenty years, while his wife and children slept. 

 shame is the elephant in the room. 

The truth is right here for everyone to see and it doesn't need to say a single word. 

They say shame controls every aspect of human behavior. 

It's about who we believe we are.

  Our shame can choke us. Kill us. Can rot us from the inside, if we decide to let it. 

Don't let that happen to you.